Nikah ke baad ladki wale ki taraf se khana dena aur aqiqe ke gosht ka walime mein istemaal karna kaisa?

Aali Janab Mufti-e-Azam Sahab Jamia Arabia Islamia,

 السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ

 Guzarish-e-khidmat ba-barkat mein yeh hai ke mundaraja-zeil sawalat ke shar'i jawabat matloob hain, umeed-e-qawi hai ke jawab dekar mamnoon farmayenge, takleef ke liye mu'aafi ka khwastgar hoon.

 (1) Nikah ke baad ladki wale ki taraf se khana dena az-roo-e-shara' durust hai ya nahi? Mere ek dost ka kehna hai ke ladki wale ki taraf khana dena khilaf-e-sunnat hai, kyunke yeh fe'l sunnat se sabit nahi, lekin dusre dost kehte hain ke apni marzi aur khushi se koi khana deta hai to is mein koi haraj nahi. Aap is par shara' ki roshni mein hukm sadir farmayen taake itminan ho jaye?

(2) Aqiqe ka gosht poore ka poora istemaal karne se jabke use gharibon mein taqseem na kiya jaye, is poore gosht ko nikah ke khane ya walime ke khane mein istemaal karne se aqiqe ka maqsad poora ho jayega ya nahi?